Meet Stacy
Presence-Based Leadership Advisor | Founder, Equati
We’re living through the largest transfer of wealth in history, but what’s really being transferred is power, identity, and emotion.
Stacy Kehren Idema stands at that intersection.
Raised inside a three-generation family business and raising two men in multi-generational family, she’s lived what most people only study: how love, leadership, and legacy intertwine.
After nearly three decades in global innovation, guiding hybrid teams, developing applied-AI solutions long before they were mainstream, and leading people through change , she returned to the work beneath the work: the emotional intelligence that holds it all together.
Through her advisory practice and her tech platform Equati, Stacy helps family offices, founders, and next-generation inheritors bring presence back into the way they invest, lead, and relate.
Her frameworks bridge the emotional and the operational so that decisions preserve both wealth and relationship. Stacy’s presence in a room is steady and unhurried, the kind that turns noise into clarity.
She names what others avoid and does it with warmth, creating space where truth feels safe to speak.
Her story resonates deeply with women stepping into financial leadership and families navigating transition who sense that legacy can’t be managed, it must be embodied.
Why Her Voice Matters Now
Markets are shifting faster than relationships can adapt.
Data and diligence are abundant; discernment is not.
Stacy’s work gives language to the emotional undercurrent of capital, the part no spreadsheet can measure yet every decision reveals.
Presence isn’t softness. It’s what keeps power human.”
— Stacy Kehren Idema
What She Speaks and Writes About
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The emotional and relational dimensions of the Great Wealth Transfer: Why EQ is the missing infrastructure.
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Succession as reckoning: what happens when leadership, lineage, and identity collide.
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The unseen labor of daughters in family enterprises; silence, trauma, and the cost of being overlooked and how women overlook themselves.
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How family offices shape private markets through values, bias, and behavior.
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Feminine intelligence in enterprise; where presence, not performance, redefines power.
As Seen In:
Stacy’s thought and presence leadership has been featured across global podcasts, legacy wealth communities, and industry publications. Recent contributions and appearances include:
On The Big Talk Podcast Stacy Kehren Idema shares her journey through family business, motherhood, and leadership, revealing how presence-based leadership and feminine intelligence redefine wealth, legacy, and family dynamics
This bold piece explores the hidden ways women run from their power and the global cost of that disconnection. With personal stories and practical strategies, Stacy calls women back to embodied leadership, offering a clear path to reclaim strength, voice, and unapologetic presence.
Stacy explores how family offices are being called to evolve, integrating values-aligned investment, emotional intelligence, and feminine leadership into the fabric of generational wealth. Drawing from her lived experience in both family business and corporate leadership, she makes a compelling case for why legacy is no longer just inherited—it must be intentionally designed.
Co-authored with family office strategist Mahir Eyvazov, this piece explores the emotional, strategic, and structural shifts required as women step into leadership during the Great Wealth Transfer. Together, we challenge outdated paradigms and call for intentional legacy design that centers shared wisdom, not just inherited wealth.
In this deeply emotional and revealing episode, Stacy shares the often-unspoken journey of feeling like an outsider—even in spaces she helped build. From running from entrepreneurship to finding her way back, she unpacks the moments that shaped her leadership, her identity as a woman, and her role as a mother. With honesty and grace, she explores radical responsibility, the courage to rewrite generational narratives, and the powerful reclamation of voice—for herself and for her sons.
Stacy Kehren Idema shares her personal and professional evolution—from decades in corporate leadership to championing values-driven entrepreneurship. Through candid reflection and hard-won wisdom, Stacy unpacks the deeper dynamics between masculine and feminine leadership, advocating for a more collaborative, empathetic, and purpose-led path forward for both women and men in business.
Book Stacy as a Guest or Speaker
Looking for a clear, emotionally intelligent voice on legacy, leadership, or the future of family wealth?
Stacy brings presence, nuance, and truth to conversations most leaders avoid.
She is especially resonant with women stepping into financial and leadership roles, and with men preparing to pass the baton to women they trust, but don’t always know how to support.
Her work names what she may be afraid to say, and gives him language for what he feels but can’t express. Together, she helps both sides move through transition without losing connection.